Nineteen Years


I have known Pam Olroyd for 27 years. We met in the Bermuda Onion in Urbana, Illinois on July 13, 1994. I thought she was the smartest person I had ever met. Then she agreed to marry me and I thought maybe she isn't as smart as I think. Turns out, she had a plan to fix my bad attitude and caustic behavior. Today we have been married 19 years. This is the longest I have ever been married. I owe it all to her. She has created our wonderful life, our family and my happiness. She believed me when I told her I would make a life for us together. She "ran away" to California with me and made our dream come true. I am the luckiest guy in the world.


 

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